Ah podcasts. Another day, another podcast. If I’m honest, I haven’t spent a lot of time exploring podcasts yet. But the other day, in an effort to push past my discomfort of the ASMR-like experience of listening to podcasts, I found an episode on the TED Radio Hour from April 2018 called, “Comfort Zone”.
In my pursuits as a solopreneur and Coach, I’ve learned and experienced that pushing outside your comfort zone is a requirement if you want to change your life. So, I’m always intrigued to hear new perspectives, stories, and strategies in “how” to approach it.
In this episode, the host featured speakers who shared stories and methods related to challenging and expanding your comfort zone. The first speaker was Tim Ferriss, entrepreneur and creator of The Four Hour Work Week (note to self: read that at some point in the future).
Tim shared how he regularly challenges himself to learning and performing new things (like drumming for a rock band at a sold-out concert, or learning a language enough over the course of a week to conduct a televised interview). Although I get it, the growth is in the choice to constantly challenge yourself beyond your perceived limitations, the examples were...well, let’s just say, less-than-relatable to “real” life for the non-multi-millionaires of us in the world.
What was relatable and something anyone at any point in life can do was what he calls, “Fear-setting”. He actually describes this practice in his TED Talk, “Why you should define your fears instead of your goals”. Rooted in Stoicism, this practice is meant to help one analyze your fears to support your decision-making. It is a 3-part process including: defining your fears; considering the benefits of action and success; and considering the impact of inaction.
So, as a new entrepreneur, my former career well in the rearview mirror by now, and looking toward a whole new decade, I decided to give it a try.
Let me tell you, the impact was HUGE! I even got an idea of how to approach one of the biggest fears that has weighed on me for years.
Here’s a summary of the process...
Like I said at the beginning, I was intrigued by this process as a new way of approaching pushing past comfort zones. The result was a whole new understanding of, and strategic plan around, the how of approaching my most present fears at the moment.
Now, this isn’t a one-and-done kind of exercise. Like any type of planning, Tim encourages people to do this quarterly, or even monthly. For me, I am going to commit to monthly (pausing here to go put those dates in my 2020 calendar now before I forget).
So, I encourage you, as a new year, a new decade, and the potential of a new YOU approaches, consider fear-setting over goal-setting this time around. I think you will find it to be a powerful tool to step yourself outside of your comfort zone and take the power back from your fears.
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